FAQ

Dildos usually refer to cylindrically shaped objects often used for insertion. They come in different shapes and sizes, but are most often long, narrow and insertable.

Vibrators, often come in a greater variety of shapes. All vibrate but they can be large or small,  long or wide, etc. Some can be inserted or  they can be used for external stimulation (often of the clitoris). Electricity is usually provided by batteries or AC current.

Basically, a VIBRATOR is a sex toy that vibrates.  A DILDO is a sex toy that does not vibrate.

One fascinating bit of trivia: The electromechanical vibrator was invented in the 1880s by a British physician as a way to treat hysteria without the fatigue accompanying manual stimulation of a woman's genitals! In fact, the vibrator was the fifth household device to be electrified, following the sewing machine, fan, tea kettle and toaster -- ten years before the vacuum cleaner and electric iron. At least we had our priorities straight!

What is ANAL SPRAY and why should I use it?

ANAL SPRAY is used to help ease into having anal intercourse.  The anal sphincter becomes relaxed and penetration becomes comfortable. Anal sprays should not numb the sphincter since that may cause tearing.   Look for herbal sprays that do not have anesthetic effects. 

What is a P SPOT?

The P Spot is the male equivalent of the female G-spot. Located internally as part of the prostate gland in the lower rectum, the P Spot is sometimes tricky to access, but from every account I've ever heard of men who've reached P Spot orgasms, the resulting pleasure is well worth the effort. So what is the P Spot, how is it associated with the prostate, and where do the orgasms come in?

The prostate gland is the size of a chestnut, surrounding the urethra and vas defrens like a donut, located close to the bottom muscle of the bladder. It's made up of muscle, nerves, blood vessels and fat mixed in with a large amount of fluid secreting glandular cells. It is these cells that secrete that which composes most of what is semen. Semen is the "loving spoonful" that men produce upon ejaculation. This is an area rich with blood and nerves and is tender to the touch (as anyone who has experienced the gloved, rectal exam can attest). These nerve endings cluster in the same place as the G-spot in women, and as all these nerves are resonating in and around the genitals, it is understandable why, with a little experience and the right touch, stimulation in this area feels great. It is also proven that men with prostate stimulation do ejaculate and reach orgasm. In fact, getting a sperm sample from men with spinal cord injuries and paraplegia requires inserting a small thumbnail size vibrator into the rectum and turning it on. The vibration causes ejaculation every time, showing that orgasms can result from a different set of stimuli than those associated with the penis.